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Vocational Development and Work/Life Balance
To identify three important theoretical insights from the textbook reading that explain work/ life balance in adult emotional and social development I will have to go with the idea of a social convoy throughout lifes journey. Secondly the idea of marriage for stability. Lastly the need for education. The social convoy makes sense since according to Mossler and Ziegler (2016) Social normsaccompany roles and are generally seen as central to maintaining social order. (p. 13.6) Social order is big in the emotional and social life of an adult. The convoy are the people in our lives that travel with us along our adult journey. In this same vein I want to mention the sandwich generation because a lot of women are left to care for their own children and the aging relatives. This puts a lot of stress on these women and shapes their emotional lives as well. According to Mossler and Ziegler (2016) Female children are three times more likely to provide support for daily activities than male children even to in-laws (p. 13.7) Secondly the idea of marriage for stability. Whether mainstream marriage or LGBT marriage marriage defines our culture and society and anchors people in an emotional relationship that endures. Most marriages make it all the way through to the end even though we see more and more divorce and single-parent homes marriage is still very popular in the emotional lives of adults. Lastly the need for education is huge. Since machines are taking over many of the hard labor jobs that we had in the past it is important for more skilled workers to be around and be knowledgeable in their field. Whether it is human services nursing technical mechanical education or engineeringit is important for the workforce to be educated.
I also like Supers Stage Theory of Vocational Development. It makes sense that there is growth exploration establishment of career maintenance over time and then deceleration. Hollands Theory of Vocational Development is also informative since you can see what kind of career interests you and what kind of job fits your personality like: investigative artistic realistic social enterprising and conventional. These are both very good theories to help people understand the importance of work in life. To explain one best practice I have in my life with respect to work/ life balance it is time management! I have had to learn over the years how to prioritize my time. I have time for family time for work time for school time for self time to clean time to play with the dogs and time to sleep. I have had to learn this the hard way because I used to procrastinate and all the work would pile up on me until one day I became wiser and said I have to split my time up to get all of this work done. I would say that the best practice that I identified is grounded in the insights from Supers Stage Theory but also from getting intrinsic and extrinsic rewards. When I manage my time and do well at work I get praised. When I take time and do a paper in the correct way I get a good grade. According to Blanchard-Fields (2009) Adult development is a concept in which all parts of life are integrated into the matrix (p. 26) It is all very rewarding when done correctly and this is how the emotional and social life of an adult rolls through this journey called life.
References
Mossler R.A. & Ziegler M. (2016).Understanding development: a lifespan perspective.San Diego CA: Bridgepoint Education Inc.
Blanchard-Fields F. (2009). Flexible and adaptive socio-emotional problem solving in adult development and aging.Restorative Neurology & Neuroscience27(5) 539-550. doi:10.3233/RNN-2009-0516
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Vocational Development and Work/Life Balance
Social roles and relationships contribute to the development of an individuals identity. Social roles often come with an expectation of how one is to act and behave (Mossler & Reigler 2016). For instance if ones social role is defined as being a parent one is accepted to have the attributes of a parent which is to love protect and to provide for their children. It is important that one properly manage their life priorities in life which includes their personal societal and work life. The consequences of inefficiently managing ones priorities in life may lead to burnout job stress and decreased psychological and physical health.
Social support plays an important role in mental health and social well-being. Social convoys can increase ones sense of belongingconnectedness and quality of life. Social convoys are comprised of a network of individuals who are also useful in providing an individual with emotional support. It also provides them with a sense of protection and support during personal social and work related challenges that may arise in ones life (Mossler & Zeigler 2016). The structure of social convoys changes over time. As individuals get older their social convoys tend to decrease in size.
Work has a heavy influence on a persons life. Work influences how people live and influences their social activities. Job satisfaction or dissatisfaction affects ones well-being (Mossler & Zeigler). Lack of job satisfaction has been associated with depression among women in the workforce. Women in the workplace receive a lower rate of pay than their male counterparts. Gender inequity contributes to the gender wage gap. Gender inequality also exists in the home. Working women who are in marital relationships perform a larger portion of the household chores and spend more time caring for the children than their male counterparts (Mossler & Reigler 2016). The disparity in the delegation of responsibilities leads to resentment conflict and marital stress. In order to maintain peace and balance in their work and home life couples will have to communicate effectively with one another and equally share the home chores and responsibilities.
In order to maintain a healthy work and home life I do not take my work home with me. I try to keep the two separated as much as possible. I try not to discuss work issues at home but sometimes I do have to vent to my significant other. At my office I try to focus on one task at a time but I often find myself multitasking. As a counselor I hear heart-wrenching stories from my clients that I try not to dwell on after work. I spend time meditating or listening to music these activities help to clear my mind. My social convoy plays a key role in helping to cope with my job stress and issues in my personal life.
Reference
Mossler R.A. & Ziegler M. (2016).Understanding development: a lifespan perspective.San Diego CA: Bridgepoint Education Inc.